Thinking of a grain of sand
who pull you into a mediocre
the strength of people do not like you, so the athlete ran the first place easily. Later, coach make him a ten-member team to participate in competitions, coach other people's results usually showed him, he found scores of others not as himself, he easily ran first, and then later, the athletes also participated in a twenty-person team competition, the coach said, you just beat one person, you will be able to win as a result, his game tight that players follow the coach said, and in the final sprint, and won first prize.
Later, a change of place, before the game, the situation on the other athletes, coaches did not communicate with him before, in five team competition, he reluctantly took first place in group competition was ten, he slid a second, twenty people in the game, he just took fifth.
actual situation is that The other athletes in all groups with exactly the same as the first level.
it could not help but remind me of the story of his coming to school.
in primary school, he was the class leader, that the first none other than the non-own; rose after junior high school, many people feel that they can test a top ten pretty good, so once the test to the top 10, they become complacent. high school, and set the lower, even a little test discrepancy will console myself and said: master of so many, has been very good. In this way, I had a step by step from good to mediocre.
Yes, life will not always be people who tell us that the strength of competitors and ability. So more and more people around the face, we started at a loss, or belittle their own initiative a way to go.
a famous entrepreneur once said, a good talent, his self-confidence Love Tonight. Yes ah, a person of their own lack of confidence, no matter how much talent, not will be brought into fuller play out. Even if he had been a piece of gold, the lack of self-confidence, and you can safely fade as a piece of iron, and even willing to degenerate into a grain of sand, long buried in the sand, discovered by outsiders.
We had a good. but that we lack self-confidence, step by step to us from a high quality pull-down, has been delegated to the mediocre position. wallow in mediocrity, life is a disaster, but also the tragedy of life . But, more often, is our own, the director of the disaster and tragedy.
are good to go downhill
of: Zhang Shiping
a farmer friend gave me about some of his own story.
day, I dragged the heavy dray arrived tired foot of the mountain. looking at the front of that long uphill section, I can not help but fear deterred. I thought,Bailey UGG boots, a person on their own today, absolutely not pull up, and certainly have been difficult to help a Caixing is the occasion, happened over a enthusiastic passers-by. He saw my predicament, said to me: hard to pull a cart. In the enthusiasm of people, two days of my lumbar sprain, and simply can not exert oneself. I'm just shouting numerous 'oil' only. can pull up this train, thanks to is yourself. , the road of life is so not a celebrity also said: success will be in vain missed opportunity. The result is unfinished, without success.
temperament is the most engaging and brand-name
of: Connaught
impose Chanel's clothes? Pierre Cardin trousers? Gucci vest? Hermes scarf? or Fendi shoes? provide you with a do not like his looks! year-old's face after the decision is their own, a four-year-old man for his future looks responsible. coincide. who often spend a lot of time and money to buy designer clothes, but few people are willing to spend the same amount of energy to self-cultivation. everyone knows, the a person who faces a temperament, than put on a brand more beautiful, more handsome, more the subject of recognition. and want to have it easy! You do not even have to spend a dime, just pay attention to his temper, correct their own character, clean his own ideas, to enrich their inner ... ... invisible, your conversation, attitude,cheap UGG boots, behavior ... ... full disclosure will put a fresh and refined atmosphere.
temperament, is the best brand name .
what determines
you become of you now: Xian Ting
large pan of water placed finish at home flower Xiaopen , facing the pot often to send some Daixiang:
You see, the same soil, water, sunlight, there are the red flowers, some white flowers; some melon, and some Results beans. Their roots in the soil where seeds and how to find, identify and learn from, absorb the things they need, which led to open his own what kind of flower, knot what kind of fruit?
from the flowers can not help but think of people. the same social environment and living conditions, the results of growth and development of people is different, if different seeds have different genes, different people have different talents, so the same genes and the talent is bound to have the same performance and results? does not necessarily proven. the world would be no two identical leaves, even the same plant; Similarly, the world's special people who each phase, even twins, they have very similar or appearance, but no identical faces, not to mention differences in the heart.
Ye Hao subjective conditions, no matter whether the objective conditions, they can only affect people who can not decide. only by self-fashioning and self-creation ability to be a final decision on what you like and what can become a kind of person.
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